Focus Vs Obsession…
Often times there is a very thin line between these two! No matter what you want to accomplish, focus is key! Focus helps you stay on the task… focus enables engaging all your facilities for...
Category: Attitude
Be selective about your Associations…
Consider a rain drop…. if you allow it to fall directly into your mouth, it can be drunk… but the same rain drop falling in filthy water becomes unfit to even touch! If it...
Practice like you never won and perform like you never lost
Someone sent me the following quote recently and I felt it was extremely compelling… “Practice like you never won and perform like you never lost…” This is not one of those quotes that you...
The Appreciation-Criticism Anomaly!Â
If you feel good at being appreciated for doing a good job and feel bad for being criticized for not doing a good job, you are suffering from grave self-esteem and self-evaluation issues!!! Does...
Attitude… a small case study!
I would like to relate two conversations that I had with two senior engineers in my team over the past 5 days… Firstly, about them: Both highly talented, hard working girls, good with communication...
Cowardice
When you run away from a mad dog or a maniac carrying a weapon, it is prudence… and yes! prudence is the best form of valor… I might consider respecting an unreasonable thug that...
Character
Ask yourself these questions… and be honest! No one’s coming to cross-verify…🙃 – Do I do what one inspects or what one expects? – Is it alright as long as no one knows??? –...
Giving up Vs Letting go
When you are having to put in too much effort into something and it does not come about; OR When you have been counting on this person and you are just not getting there....
The (un)Fairness of Life’s Lessons…
Breathes there a man who has not had a struggle in his life??? And we are seasoned to (believe) know that all these are to be taken as lessons that make us better people/...
How is YOUR relationship with YOU???
The one question that occurs only if you know the answer… The most important ingredients that go into a good relationship: 1. A sound value system… 2. A strong mission… All the other elements...
